Un\u00eb dhe gruaja ime kemi patur z\u00ebnka t\u00eb shpeshta koh\u00ebt e fundit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
U lodha nga puna nj\u00eb dit\u00eb dhe ajo q\u00eb d\u00ebshiroja t\u00eb b\u00ebja ishte vet\u00ebm t\u00eb shtrihesha dhe t\u00eb shihja ndeshjen n\u00eb TV.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
N\u00eb ato momente, ajo po p\u00ebrpiqej t\u00eb vinte djalin e vog\u00ebl n\u00eb gjum\u00eb, dhe dy f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e tjer\u00eb po grindeshin.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
N\u00eb vend q\u00eb ta ndihmoja, un\u00eb ia ngrita volumin edhe m\u00eb lart televizionit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cA nuk t\u00eb duket se duhet t\u00eb kesh nj\u00eb rol m\u00eb aktiv n\u00eb edukimin e f\u00ebmij\u00ebve t\u00eb tu? Ti ke mund\u00ebsi t\u00eb jap\u00ebsh ndihmes\u00eb edhe m\u00eb shum\u00eb rreth sht\u00ebpis\u00eb,\u201d<\/em> m\u00eb b\u00ebrtiti mua.<\/p>\n\n\n\n I thash\u00eb asaj gj\u00ebra t\u00eb tmerrshme dhe ajo m\u00eb b\u00ebrtiti akoma m\u00eb shum\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n F\u00ebmij\u00ebt po shihnin konfliktimin ton\u00eb dhe u m\u00ebrzit\u00ebn akoma m\u00eb shum\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cM\u00eb erdh\u00ebn n\u00eb maj\u00eb t\u00eb hund\u00ebs t\u00eb gjitha,\u201d<\/em> tha ajo me lot\u00ebt q\u00eb i derdheshin rr\u00ebke n\u00ebp\u00ebr faqe.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Pasi shfryu, ajo vrapoi jasht\u00eb sht\u00ebpis\u00eb, duke m\u00eb l\u00ebn\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb kujdesem vet\u00eb p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebt.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Un\u00eb duhej t\u2019i ushqyeja f\u00ebmij\u00ebt dhe \u2026 t\u2019i vija n\u00eb shtrat vet\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ajo nuk u kthye dit\u00ebn tjet\u00ebr, k\u00ebshtu q\u00eb u detyrova t\u2019i k\u00ebrkoj shefit tim nj\u00eb dit\u00eb pushim q\u00eb t\u00eb kujdesesha p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebt.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Kisha aq shum\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb saq\u00eb nuk nuk m\u00eb doli asnj\u00eb mund\u00ebsi q\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebja dush.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Kisha p\u00ebr t\u00eb ngrohur qum\u00ebshtin, t\u2019u gjeja veshjet e f\u00ebmij\u00ebve, dhe nj\u00ebkoh\u00ebsisht t\u00eb pastroja t\u00eb gjith\u00eb kuzhin\u00ebn.<\/p>\n\n\n\n E provova vet\u00eb se \u00e7far\u00eb do t\u00eb thot\u00eb t\u00eb mos kesh mund\u00ebsi p\u00ebr t\u2019u ulur dhe t\u00eb hash me qet\u00ebsi n\u00eb tavolin\u00eb. Kam p\u00ebrjetuar at\u00eb ndjenj\u00ebn kur je shteruar fizikisht dhe emocionalisht sa doja t\u00eb flija 20 or\u00eb rresht. Por m\u00eb duhej t\u00eb \u00e7ohesha, sepse foshnja po qante.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Kam jetuar vet\u00ebm dy dit\u00eb dhe dy net\u00eb n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn se si gruaja ime ia ka dalur t\u00eb jetoj\u00eb \u00e7do dit\u00eb t\u00eb saj\u00ebn, dhe tani e kuptoj.<\/p>\n\n\n\n U lodha!<\/p>\n\n\n\n E kuptova se \u00e7far\u00eb ngarkese t\u00eb st\u00ebrmadhe nervore dhe fizike kishte gruaja ime saq\u00eb nuk i jepej as m\u00eb e vogla mund\u00ebsi t\u00eb dilte nj\u00ebher\u00eb me shoqet e saj, t\u00eb shkonte n\u00eb palest\u00ebr t\u00eb kujdesej p\u00ebr trupin e saj, apo ta b\u00ebnt\u00eb qoft\u00eb nj\u00eb nat\u00eb t\u00eb vetme gjumin e qet\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Un\u00eb gjithashtu kuptova m\u00eb n\u00eb fund pse ajo m\u00ebrzitej aq shum\u00eb kur n\u00ebna ime e kritikonte p\u00ebr m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn se si ajo vendoste p\u00ebr t\u00eb rritur f\u00ebmij\u00ebt, sepse askush n\u00eb bot\u00eb nuk e di se \u00e7far\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb e mira p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebt tan\u00eb, p\u00ebrve\u00e7 n\u00ebn\u00ebs s\u00eb tyre.<\/p>\n\n\n\n E kuptova se sa i keq kisha qen\u00eb si burr\u00eb dhe si baba.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Vendosa t\u00eb ndryshoja sjelljen time. Dhe doja t\u2019i k\u00ebrkoja falje p\u00ebrse kisha qen\u00eb aq i verb\u00ebr.<\/p>\n\n\n\n E thirra n\u00ebn\u00ebn time t\u00eb vinte dhe t\u00eb m\u00eb ndihmonte t\u00eb kujdesesha p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebt, k\u00ebshtu q\u00eb un\u00eb mund t\u00eb p\u00ebrq\u00ebndrohesha n\u00eb gjetjen e gruas sime.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Kur po b\u00ebhesha gati t\u00eb dilja nga dera p\u00ebr t\u00eb shkuar te sht\u00ebpia e shoqes s\u00eb saj t\u00eb shihja n\u00ebse ajo ishte atje.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Papritmas, ajo ishte duke q\u00ebndruar tek hyrja pas dere.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ajo dukej e m\u00ebrzitur, por e \u00e7lodhur \u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n Un\u00eb shkova tek ajo, e mbajta shtr\u00ebnguar dhe i thash\u00eb, \u201cZem\u00ebr, kam qen\u00eb kaq egoist dhe kaq i verb\u00ebr. Faleminderit q\u00eb m\u00eb ndihmove t\u00eb shoh. Te lutem me fal!\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cM\u00eb vjen keq, nuk duhet t\u00eb t\u00eb kisha l\u00ebn\u00eb \u2026 t\u00eb dua!\u201d<\/em>, tha ajo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cMos t\u00eb t\u00eb vij\u00eb keq, edhe un\u00eb t\u00eb dua\u201d.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n \u00cbsht\u00eb e leht\u00eb q\u00eb grat\u00eb dhe n\u00ebnat tona t\u00eb merren si t\u00eb mir\u00ebq\u00ebna por ata jan\u00eb superheronjt\u00eb n\u00eb jet\u00ebn ton\u00eb q\u00eb kurr\u00eb nuk k\u00ebrkojn\u00eb nj\u00eb faleminderit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ato jan\u00eb t\u00eb forta, ato jan\u00eb jeta dhe ato jan\u00eb t\u00eb dashura.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Kujdesi i n\u00ebn\u00ebs \u00ebsht\u00eb themeli p\u00ebr t\u00eb ushqyer bukurin\u00eb e shpirtit t\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebs. Dashuria e saj sjell t\u00eb gjitha potencialet mahnit\u00ebse t\u00eb nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb, men\u00e7uria e saj e \u00e7on f\u00ebmij\u00ebn t\u00eb zhvillohet n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn e duhur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Nj\u00eb grua e dashur \u00ebsht\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb aty kur ju nevojitet, ajo udh\u00ebzon dhe ndihmon burrin e saj p\u00ebr t\u00eb kap\u00ebrcyer \u00e7do sfid\u00eb n\u00eb jet\u00ebn e tij. Nj\u00eb grua \u00ebsht\u00eb ajo q\u00eb e mban tradit\u00ebn familjare t\u00eb gjall\u00eb.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Un\u00eb dhe gruaja ime kemi patur z\u00ebnka t\u00eb shpeshta koh\u00ebt e fundit. U lodha nga puna nj\u00eb dit\u00eb dhe ajo q\u00eb d\u00ebshiroja t\u00eb b\u00ebja ishte vet\u00ebm t\u00eb shtrihesha dhe t\u00eb shihja ndeshjen n\u00eb TV. N\u00eb ato momente, ajo po p\u00ebrpiqej t\u00eb vinte djalin e vog\u00ebl n\u00eb gjum\u00eb, dhe dy f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e tjer\u00eb po grindeshin. 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