N\u00eb nj\u00eb koh\u00eb kur nj\u00eb pjes\u00eb e madhe e p\u00ebrditshm\u00ebris\u00eb p\u00ebrfundon n\u00eb Instagram, TikTok apo platforma t\u00eb tjera, ka edhe njer\u00ebz q\u00eb zgjedhin t\u00eb q\u00ebndrojn\u00eb pothuajse t\u00eb paduksh\u00ebm online. Kan\u00eb profile, ndjekin miqt\u00eb dhe mund t\u2019i p\u00ebrdorin rrjetet sociale \u00e7do dit\u00eb, por rrall\u00eb publikojn\u00eb foto, \u201cstory\u201d apo detaje nga jeta personale.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Kjo sjellje mund t\u00eb duket e pazakont\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb epok\u00eb ku shp\u00ebrndarja e momenteve personale \u00ebsht\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb pjes\u00eb e rutin\u00ebs, por arsyet pas saj mund t\u00eb jen\u00eb shum\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb thjeshta nga sa mendojm\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Kan\u00eb m\u00eb pak nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb ndar\u00eb jet\u00ebn private<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n P\u00ebr disa persona ekziston nj\u00eb kufi i qart\u00eb mes asaj q\u00eb p\u00ebrjetojn\u00eb dhe asaj q\u00eb duan t\u00eb shohin t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt. Nj\u00eb dark\u00eb e bukur, nj\u00eb udh\u00ebtim apo nj\u00eb moment romantik nuk ka nevoj\u00eb domosdoshm\u00ebrisht t\u00eb publikohet p\u00ebr t\u2019u konsideruar i r\u00ebnd\u00ebsish\u00ebm.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Kjo nuk do t\u00eb thot\u00eb se k\u00ebta njer\u00ebz nuk i p\u00ebrdorin rrjetet sociale. Shum\u00eb prej tyre mund t\u00eb kalojn\u00eb koh\u00eb duke par\u00eb p\u00ebrmbajtjet e t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve, pa ndier t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn d\u00ebshir\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb ekspozuar veten.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Privat\u00ebsia mund t\u00eb ket\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Sa m\u00eb shum\u00eb informacion t\u00eb publikojm\u00eb, aq m\u00eb shum\u00eb pjes\u00eb t\u00eb jet\u00ebs son\u00eb b\u00ebhen t\u00eb aksesueshme p\u00ebr njer\u00ebz q\u00eb mund t\u00eb mos i njohim mir\u00eb. P\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb arsye, disa p\u00ebrdorues jan\u00eb shum\u00eb selektiv\u00eb me at\u00eb q\u00eb tregojn\u00eb. Mund t\u00eb preferojn\u00eb q\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebniet, familja, puna apo vendndodhja e tyre t\u00eb mbeten jasht\u00eb syrit t\u00eb publikut.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Nuk k\u00ebrkojn\u00eb domosdoshm\u00ebrisht konfirmim online<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n P\u00eblqimet dhe komentet mund t\u00eb krijojn\u00eb nj\u00eb ndjesi t\u00eb menj\u00ebhershme vler\u00ebsimi, por jo t\u00eb gjith\u00eb e k\u00ebrkojn\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb lloj reagimi. Disa njer\u00ebz thjesht nuk e lidhin nj\u00eb eksperienc\u00eb t\u00eb bukur me nevoj\u00ebn p\u00ebr ta treguar at\u00eb. Mund t\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb nj\u00eb udh\u00ebtim t\u00eb mrekulluesh\u00ebm dhe t\u00eb kthehen pa publikuar asnj\u00eb fotografi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Mund t\u00eb jen\u00eb lodhur nga krahasimi social<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Rrjetet sociale na ekspozojn\u00eb vazhdimisht ndaj versioneve t\u00eb kuruara t\u00eb jet\u00ebs s\u00eb njer\u00ebzve t\u00eb tjer\u00eb: pushime perfekte, marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie romantike, trupa ideal\u00eb dhe suksese profesionale. P\u00ebr disa persona, reduktimi i postimeve apo i prezenc\u00ebs online \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb krijuar distanc\u00eb nga presioni p\u00ebr t\u2019u krahasuar ose p\u00ebr t\u00eb nd\u00ebrtuar vazhdimisht nj\u00eb version t\u00eb p\u00ebrsosur t\u00eb vetes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Preferojn\u00eb t\u00eb jetojn\u00eb momentin pa menduar si do t\u00eb duket online<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Nj\u00eb koncert mund t\u00eb shijohet pa e filmuar. Nj\u00eb dark\u00eb mund t\u00eb kaloj\u00eb pa fotografuar pjat\u00ebn dhe nj\u00eb udh\u00ebtim mund t\u00eb mbetet vet\u00ebm n\u00eb galerin\u00eb personale t\u00eb telefonit. P\u00ebr disa njer\u00ebz, kjo m\u00ebnyr\u00eb e p\u00ebrjetimit t\u00eb momenteve \u00ebsht\u00eb thjesht m\u00eb natyrale.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Por mungesa e postimeve nuk tregon automatikisht personalitetin e dikujt<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n \u00cbsht\u00eb e leht\u00eb t\u00eb krijohen p\u00ebrfundime t\u00eb tilla si \u201cnjer\u00ebzit q\u00eb nuk postojn\u00eb jan\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb sigurt n\u00eb vetvete\u201d apo \u201cjan\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb lumtur\u201d. N\u00eb realitet, sjellja online nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb test personaliteti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Dikush mund t\u00eb mos postoj\u00eb sepse vler\u00ebson privat\u00ebsin\u00eb, dikush tjet\u00ebr sepse nuk i interesojn\u00eb rrjetet sociale, nd\u00ebrsa nj\u00eb person tjet\u00ebr mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb thjesht shum\u00eb i z\u00ebn\u00eb. Ajo q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb interesante \u00ebsht\u00eb se, nd\u00ebrsa dikur pyetja ishte pse dikush publikonte kaq shum\u00eb nga jeta e tij, sot mund t\u00eb ndodh\u00eb e kund\u00ebrta: kur nj\u00eb person nuk publikon asgj\u00eb, t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt fillojn\u00eb t\u00eb pyesin se \u00e7far\u00eb po fsheh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Dhe ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigjja \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb e thjesht\u00eb: asgj\u00eb. Jo \u00e7do moment i bukur ka nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr nj\u00eb audienc\u00eb.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" N\u00eb nj\u00eb koh\u00eb kur nj\u00eb pjes\u00eb e madhe e p\u00ebrditshm\u00ebris\u00eb p\u00ebrfundon n\u00eb Instagram, TikTok apo platforma t\u00eb tjera, ka edhe njer\u00ebz q\u00eb zgjedhin t\u00eb q\u00ebndrojn\u00eb pothuajse t\u00eb paduksh\u00ebm online. Kan\u00eb profile, ndjekin miqt\u00eb dhe mund t\u2019i p\u00ebrdorin rrjetet sociale \u00e7do dit\u00eb, por rrall\u00eb publikojn\u00eb foto, \u201cstory\u201d apo detaje nga jeta personale. 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