{"id":39825,"date":"2026-10-04T20:31:40","date_gmt":"2026-10-04T19:31:40","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/kohanews.al\/?p=39825"},"modified":"2026-10-04T20:31:43","modified_gmt":"2026-10-04T19:31:43","slug":"ishte-i-pesti-qe-u-hodh-nga-ballkoni-i-spitalit-irena-rrefen-humbjen-tragjike-te-bashkeshorti","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/kohanews.al\/?p=39825","title":{"rendered":"\u201cIshte i pesti q\u00eb u hodh nga ballkoni i spitalit\u201d, Irena rr\u00ebfen humbjen tragjike t\u00eb bashk\u00ebshorti"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nj\u00eb dashuri e lindur n\u00eb nj\u00eb koh\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb, nj\u00eb familje e nd\u00ebrtuar mes sakrificash dhe nj\u00eb ndarje q\u00eb erdhi jo p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb munges\u00ebs s\u00eb dashuris\u00eb, por p\u00ebrball\u00eb nj\u00eb beteje t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00eb me s\u00ebmundjen. Irena rr\u00ebfeu n\u00eb \u201cKa Nj\u00eb Mesazh P\u00ebr Ty\u201d historin\u00eb e marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnies me bashk\u00ebshortin e saj, nj\u00eb ish-i burgosur politik, me t\u00eb cilin u largua nga Shqip\u00ebria pas r\u00ebnies s\u00eb komunizmit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ata shkuan fillimisht drejt Greqis\u00eb, nd\u00ebrsa m\u00eb pas u vendos\u00ebn n\u00eb Belgjik\u00eb. Por jeta do t\u2019i p\u00ebrballte me nj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr sfid\u00eb t\u00eb jasht\u00ebzakonshme. Bashk\u00ebshorti i Iren\u00ebs u p\u00ebrball me nj\u00eb s\u00ebmundje t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00eb mendore dhe, pavar\u00ebsisht se \u00e7ifti u divorcua, ajo tregon se nuk e braktisi kurr\u00eb. P\u00ebr 22 vite, Irena thot\u00eb se b\u00ebri gjith\u00e7ka p\u00ebr t\u00eb qen\u00eb pran\u00eb tij dhe p\u00ebr ta mbrojtur, nd\u00ebrsa dy djemt\u00eb e tyre vijuan ta kishin babain pjes\u00eb t\u00eb jet\u00ebs s\u00eb tyre.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Humbja e tij do t\u00eb ishte edhe m\u00eb tragjike. Gjat\u00eb pandemis\u00eb s\u00eb COVID-19, ai humbi jet\u00ebn pasi u hodh nga ballkoni i spitalit. <em>\u201cIshte i pesti q\u00eb u hodh nga ballkoni i spitalit\u201d,<\/em> rr\u00ebfeu Irena mes emocioneve, duke pranuar se e kishte p\u00ebrjetuar shum\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00eb at\u00eb moment.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<div class=\"jeg_video_container jeg_video_content\"><iframe title=\"\u201cIshte i pesti q\u00eb u hodh nga ballkoni i spitalit\u201d, Irena rr\u00ebfen humbjen tragjike t\u00eb bashk\u00ebshorti\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/I0ipIOnXEGY?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/div>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Irena:<\/strong> <em>Un\u00eb kam ardhur q\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebj edhe nj\u00eb p\u00ebrpjekje t\u00eb fundit, ndoshta. Sepse kam n\u00ebnt\u00eb vjet pa i takuar dhe pa pasur asnj\u00eb lloj komunikimi me dy f\u00ebmij\u00eb binjak\u00eb, djal\u00eb dhe vajz\u00eb, t\u00eb v\u00ebllait tim t\u00eb ndjer\u00eb q\u00eb ka 9 vjet q\u00eb ka vdekur.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Ardit Gjebrea:<\/strong> <em>Flasim pak p\u00ebr jet\u00ebn tuaj fillimisht?<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Irena:<\/strong> <em>Un\u00eb jam n\u00ebn\u00eb e dy djemve t\u00eb rritur sot. Jam rritur n\u00eb nj\u00eb familje kat\u00ebr veta, un\u00eb v\u00ebllai dhe dy f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e mi. Un\u00eb kam lindur n\u00eb Kor\u00e7\u00eb, por jam rritur dhe kam jetuar n\u00eb qytetin e La\u00e7it, deri n\u00eb koh\u00ebn e demokracis\u00eb. Un\u00eb nuk arrita dot q\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebja shkoll\u00ebn e lart\u00eb, si\u00e7 ishte politika at\u00ebher\u00eb, p\u00ebr shkak biografie. Un\u00eb b\u00ebra nj\u00eb kurs p\u00ebr rrobaqep\u00ebse, kurse v\u00ebllai im i ndjer\u00eb pati fatin q\u00eb t\u00eb ndiqte shkoll\u00ebn e lart\u00eb. V\u00ebllai erdhi t\u00eb b\u00ebnte shkoll\u00ebn n\u00eb Tiran\u00eb, prind\u00ebrit shit\u00ebn sht\u00ebpin\u00eb q\u00eb kishim n\u00eb La\u00e7 dhe jetuan n\u00eb Tiran\u00eb. Un\u00eb kur u ktheva nga Belgjika sapo kishin hyr\u00eb n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Ardit Gjebrea:<\/strong> <em>Si shkove n\u00eb Belgjik\u00eb?<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Irena:<\/strong> <em>Sapo erdhi demokracia, mua nuk m\u00eb interesoi asnj\u00eb gj\u00eb dhe ika n\u00eb Belgjik\u00eb. Ika me bashk\u00ebshortin pa b\u00ebr\u00eb martes\u00ebn akoma. Ik\u00ebm n\u00eb Greqi n\u00eb fillim\u2026<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Ardit Gjebrea:<\/strong> <em>\u00c7far\u00eb b\u00ebri q\u00eb e le Greqin\u00eb?<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Irena:<\/strong> <em>Bashk\u00ebshorti im i ndjer\u00eb ka qen\u00eb nj\u00eb ish-i burgosur politik, letrat n\u00eb Greqi i kishim, por ai e ndjente veten akoma t\u00eb persekutuar.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Ardit Gjebrea:<\/strong> <em>Ti thua bashk\u00ebshorti im i ndjer\u00eb, \u00e7far\u00eb ka ndodhur?<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Irena:<\/strong> <em>Bashk\u00ebshorti im ka nd\u00ebrruar jet\u00eb pas 6 vitesh dhe kam qen\u00eb e divorcuar 16 vite para me t\u00eb. Ne shkuam n\u00eb Belgjik\u00eb bashk\u00eb dhe m\u00eb pas u ndam\u00eb, sepse na ndoq\u00ebn pas problemet e sistemit me t\u00eb cilin jetuam. Nuk kishim probleme n\u00eb \u00e7ift. F\u00ebmij\u00ebt e mi jan\u00eb edhe sot n\u00eb sht\u00ebpin\u00eb e babait t\u00eb tyre, un\u00eb jam e nderuar n\u00eb sht\u00ebpin\u00eb e babait t\u00eb tyre.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Ardit Gjebrea:<\/strong> <em>Pra ndarja juaj ishte nj\u00eb ndarje mir\u00ebkuptimi?<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Irena<em>:<\/em><\/strong> <em>Arsye t\u00eb nj\u00eb s\u00ebmundjeje t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00eb mendore. Im shoq hoqi nj\u00eb nga torturat m\u00eb t\u00eb r\u00ebnda n\u00eb rrethin e Kruj\u00ebs, n\u00eb koh\u00ebn e sistemit. Ishte nj\u00eb djal\u00eb trim dhe nj\u00eb djal\u00eb i bes\u00ebs. Kur u s\u00ebmur djalin e vog\u00ebl e kisha 3 vje\u00e7 dhe t\u00eb madhin 12 vje\u00e7. Ishte nj\u00eb zgjedhje e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb, por nuk e braktis\u00ebm, thjesht jetonte n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi m\u00eb vete. Nuk b\u00ebra gjyq. Shkak p\u00ebr vdekjen e tij u b\u00eb covid-i. Ishte i pesti q\u00eb u hodh\u2026 I pesti q\u00eb u hodh nga ballkoni i spitalit. E kam p\u00ebrjetuar edhe shum\u00eb keq. Nuk u ndava me at\u00eb, sepse ai ishte i keq, apo se m\u00eb kishte dhunuar. N\u00eb 22 vite e di un\u00eb se si ia kam dal\u00eb. Por, p\u00ebr \u00e7do gj\u00eb un\u00eb konsultohesha me babain time.<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Nj\u00eb dashuri e lindur n\u00eb nj\u00eb koh\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb, nj\u00eb familje e nd\u00ebrtuar mes sakrificash dhe nj\u00eb ndarje q\u00eb erdhi jo p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb munges\u00ebs s\u00eb dashuris\u00eb, por p\u00ebrball\u00eb nj\u00eb beteje t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00eb me s\u00ebmundjen. Irena rr\u00ebfeu n\u00eb \u201cKa Nj\u00eb Mesazh P\u00ebr Ty\u201d historin\u00eb e marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnies me bashk\u00ebshortin e saj, nj\u00eb ish-i burgosur politik, me [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":39826,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jnews-multi-image_gallery":[],"jnews_single_post":{"format":"standard"},"jnews_primary_category":[],"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-39825","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-news"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/kohanews.al\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/39825","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/kohanews.al\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/kohanews.al\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kohanews.al\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kohanews.al\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=39825"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/kohanews.al\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/39825\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":39827,"href":"https:\/\/kohanews.al\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/39825\/revisions\/39827"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kohanews.al\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/39826"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/kohanews.al\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=39825"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kohanews.al\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=39825"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kohanews.al\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=39825"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}