Jonida Maliqi, e ftuar n\u00eb emisionin \u201cGoca dhe Gra\u201d n\u00eb Top Channel, ka folur n\u00eb lidhje me djalin e saj, Danin, p\u00ebr t\u00eb cilin e ka b\u00ebr\u00eb t\u00eb ditur edhe m\u00eb par\u00eb se ai \u00ebsht\u00eb diagnostikuar me spektrin e autizmit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Jonida tregon evoluimin e t\u00eb birit, dhe vuajtjet e saj, duke mos kursyer as akuzat p\u00ebr psikologen e par\u00eb q\u00eb e ka diagnostikuar. K\u00ebng\u00ebtarja flet edhe n\u00eb lidhje me problemet dhe gjyqin me ish-bashk\u00ebshortin e saj.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cNuk e kam imagjinuar asnj\u00ebher\u00eb q\u00eb kisha nj\u00eb forc\u00eb kaq t\u00eb madhe, nuk e dija se do t\u00eb \u00e7aja malet p\u00ebr t\u00eb. Ai m\u00eb ka p\u00ebrsosur si qenie. \u00cbsht\u00eb adoleshent, kemi pasur rrug\u00ebtim t\u00eb bukur me ulje dhe ngritje. M\u00eb kishin th\u00ebn\u00eb se adoleshenca do t\u00eb ishte e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb, fal\u00eb Zotit ai ka pasur shum\u00eb progres, merr dashurin\u00eb e prind\u00ebrve dhe gjysh\u00ebrve dhe t\u00eb gjith\u00eb jemi aty p\u00ebr t\u00eb. Ja ku jam sot, flas hapur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
E kam pranuar q\u00eb n\u00eb momentin e par\u00eb q\u00eb Dani ishte ndryshe nga f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e tjer\u00eb, por ka qen\u00eb e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb ta thosha hapur. N\u00eb fund t\u00eb 2015-\u00ebs shkuam n\u00eb nj\u00eb piskolog dhe pas nj\u00eb gjysm\u00eb or\u00eb na tha se nuk ishim prind\u00ebr t\u00eb denj\u00eb dhe si e kishim l\u00ebn\u00eb djalin n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb gjendje. Na tha se ai nuk do t\u00eb flas\u00eb kurr\u00eb dhe nuk do t\u00eb socializohet.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ai moment ishte goditje e madhe dhe m\u00eb pas shkuam te nj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr qend\u00ebr, ajo e Liri Berish\u00ebs dhe me ndihm\u00ebn e nj\u00eb ekipi prej 5 mjek\u00ebsh Dani sot flet dy gjuh\u00eb, shkon n\u00eb shkoll\u00eb. P\u00ebr at\u00eb psikologe, Anjeza Dishnica, do t\u00eb doja t\u2019i thosha dy fjal\u00eb: \u2018Turp t\u00eb kesh, sepse nj\u00eb prindi, sido q\u00eb t\u00eb jet\u00eb f\u00ebmija e vet, nuk i komunikohet n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb. Ishte m\u00ebnyra m\u00eb bastarde e mundshme, e b\u00ebr\u00eb p\u00ebr m\u00eb tep\u00ebr nga nj\u00eb mjek\u2019.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Doja t\u00eb ruaja diskrecionin, t\u00eb ishte nj\u00eb \u00e7\u00ebshtje sa m\u00eb private mes meje, Danit dhe babait t\u00eb tij. Ishte vendimi i k\u00ebtij t\u00eb fundit p\u00ebr t\u00eb shkuar n\u00eb gjyq p\u00ebr ndarjen. Fillimisht ishte me marr\u00ebveshje, por para dy vitesh u b\u00eb publike dhe shkova n\u00eb gjykat\u00eb p\u00ebr gj\u00ebra t\u00eb ndryshme. E zbuloi media dhe un\u00eb kundrejt publikut kam detyrim moral. Tani nuk ja vlen m\u00eb, un\u00eb ja kam l\u00ebn\u00eb drejt\u00ebsis\u00eb me gjith\u00eb orvatjet p\u00ebr nj\u00eb periudh\u00eb t\u00eb gjat\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ka platforma dhe n\u00ebse nj\u00eb dit\u00eb do t\u00eb shoh se djalit tim i mohohet e drejta, do t\u00eb dal t\u00eb flas. Djali im \u00ebsht\u00eb epiqendra dhe nuk ka munguar asnj\u00ebher\u00eb komunikimi sa i p\u00ebrket djalit. Jam munduar gjithnj\u00eb t\u00eb gjej gjuh\u00ebn e komunikimit dhe nuk e kisha marr\u00eb me mend kurr\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb flisja sot p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb. Shpresoj q\u00eb nj\u00eb dit\u00eb t\u00eb gjejm\u00eb gjuh\u00ebn e duhur dhe t\u2019i hapim rrug\u00eb nj\u00eb zgjidhjeje\u201d, shprehet Maliqi.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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